The Goffney Twins

So here is the latest news concerning the Goffney brothers, The African America identical twin brother that was arrested a few years back for burglary, Taleon Goffney was in court and was sentenced to three to eight years after a plea. Although both were in court his brother, Keyontyli Goffney was not sentence and due back in court on August 6.

This is a really sad story, they both seem to want seem like moved or trying to move on pass the porn. According to reports Keyontyli Goffney had moved on as a fashion model, while Taleon Goffney was a trained gymnast and karate expert.

Just another example for how WHITE MEN are still coming in a continuously raping and defecating on the minor communities. Most of the media is reporting on big heads line “GAY PORN TWINS”, yet interesting enough no one is talking about the producers.

I honestly wish these guys and other like them the best and hope they while and after doing their time that come out in a better place ready to take the world by storm.

I am so not politically corrected right now. But it’s time that we stop with these shenanigans, BROTHER LEARNS TO LOVE EACH OTHER AND TOP LOOKING FOR SOME GREAT WHITE HOPE! I MEAN REALLY TIME AND TIME AGAIN. THE SAME SCENE IS PLAYED OUT.

Omari Hardwick…..Dark Blue

So I was watching a new show on TNT last night called “Dark Blue.” I was very good show. I planned on it being a regular for me. I am not sure if it will last only because the Media masses seem to only think in reality TV. I really feel we are having an over load right now but that just me. I like shows that make me think….. Call me crazy. LOL

So as I was watching this show, I got a pleasant surprise and WOW what a surprise. Mr. Omari Hardwick………mmmmmmmmm. I have attached some pictures and history about this BEAUITFUL man. So you can see for yourself. Let me know what you think.

Omari Hardwick’s professional career ranges from film, television and theater to pro sports and award-winning poetry. His feature credits include supporting roles in Linewatch, Miracle at St. Anna, Gridiron Gang, The Guardian and Beauty Shop, as well as leading roles in Proof Positive and Within the Wall. His upcoming film roles include Bolden, Next Day Air and Kick-Ass.

Hardwick is also a founding member of Plan B Inc. Theater Group and co-founder of Los Angeles Actor’s Lounge. He is nationally ranked in spoken-word poetry. Hardwick played football for his home state’s University of Georgia and played in the NFL.

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Summer Time

Summer is here and with that comes a need for a summer reFresher. We all know that some things are synonymous for example plenty of Sunshine, a lot of skin, and a need to stay cool.

So fellas, young, middle aged or old it do es not matter race creed or color. We all are affected by it from time to time no matter how many showers or how much we shaved our balls, nuts or scrotum sweats. So what is one to do? How do you handle these moments when you are not at your best and not always fresh? Yea yea yea …. I know some of you like … HELL love that “manly” smell and that’s fine with me but there may be a time when you need to be a special night out or maybe you just like to fresh and clean feeling!

Over the years, I have read, traded secrets, and observe about male grooming. So I reached in my treasure chest to share with you what I have learned. Now by know means is I saying that everything works for same person and you know your own body. If you have any medical conditions you should always consult a medical professional before doing anything. So let’s get down to business.

First off, male grooming is a good thing. It not o nly shows that you care about yourself but you care about others as well. You can still be “au natural” and groom, which we will also talk about also. Its can simple, cost effective and can be done in your own home. I know there are some people that just want someone else to do it for them and that can be expensive in this economy that we are in. But that’s your personal choice and your money.

Really quick, let’s start above the waist … I mean seriously…..the head on your shoulders; visiting your20barber is a great way to start. I personally go every week maybe two weeks for a haircut and mustaches trim. I also, use a product with green tea in it to wash my hair and do a hot oil treatment to help with dryness and to provide a shine and a luster to my hair. So you would need to do some research on what your needs are and what you want to accomplish. I would also recommend a daily face cleanser. Look you are out in the sun, pollution’s all day and sometimes at night clubbing so you need to protect your skin. You are not being gurly or girly by taking care of yourself. The BIG no brainier is drinking plenty water and getting rest. Sometimes, you might have stay in and call it an early night. Oh wait ….no during the week on a couple nights go to bed early that way the weekends are all yours. Good dental hygiene is a must there is nothing worst then bad breath. So here is the magic trick that works 9 out of 10 times for me: Floss, mouthwash, brushing on regular bases. Now, if that does not work there may be more going on so talk to your dentist. Oh yea, BUY SOME DAMN CHAPSTI CK……….Yes even during the summer.

So now below the belt we have a few oppositions for staying fresh. The biggest one is take a bath. In a time that we are all in hurry and always looking to cut corners the Art of a bath has been lost. I am not talking about a shower but if that the only way you roll then do that. In a bath you can add a few drops of baby oil into the water that can help your skin to have a more natural glow. The most common one would a couple of=2 0shakes of baby powder after a shower and underwear. I also just heard from Sexy Xem Van Adams, who on a side note should really holla at a brotha because our kids would cute and the talk of the town. I know you love yourself some Chocolate and I cannot get enuff of Carmel. So you can be my Camillo and I can be your Chocolate bar. Okay, back to the issue at hand. According to Mr. Adam a little Baking Soda used in the same manner works well also. But if you have sensitive skin be careful because I don’t want you to get chuffed. The next one is also very common but to be honest irritates the HELL out of me, Hair removal/shaving, for those that do not know hair hold in moisture that can cause a smell. You can also use a really good scented lotion and or Baby oil gel right after a bath, while the skin is still damp.

You also should check the type of underwear you are wearing during those hot time. For example, cotton breaths better the polyester. Boxers would allow for more freedom and a breeze then briefs. Now for the all natural lovers, that’s a great opposition and finds a strong soap that does not dry you out so you can get into the special places and clean them.

HHHHUUUUHHHH, I am at the end. I honestly hope this piece of information helps someone. If there are any other suggestion please let me know and I will post them. He ll, I might learn something new too. Remember to stay refresh and ready… 365.

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Where do we go now?

For some people this topic may seem really silly but for those who truly mourn the last on Michael J Jackson AKA MJ. Yea, I know there are a lot of other artists in the world; however, none of these artists are nowhere near his level of artistry. Yet, leads a lot of fans like myself to ask the question o f ”Where do we go now?”

Mr. Jackson ability to influence was remarkable yet I wonder if he knew how powerful he was. His fans base was a mixture of varieties demographic and economic standing. If you ever doubted the GREAT humanitarian you must not have been watching television over the past couple of days. From education throw music and contributions to varieties causes, He was truly a Megastar of a different Era. He was always classy yet reachable, Professional yet personable. He has the canning ability to make every single person feel as if they were part of every note he sung or stepped he walked. His mere presents make even the polished or well mannered stutter and stammer.

So again, I ask “Where do we go now?”

There has to be more then this.

Why does it seem that “Dl/thug/men” always equate masculine to a way of acting? I know a lot of “Dl/thug/men and more of them to me honest they act more Cunty or fem, effeminate…what have you… It takes them forever to get dress, want to wear, at the barber and manicure shop, in the gym trying to stay pumped so other guys notice them and they are the main ones always gossiping and talking shit about others. That seems really CUNTY TO ME AND QUEENY.

Damn okay I get it and so does everyone one else….lol you like what you like. But if yo ass is still here in the same place same time next year. You know why. Our other homosexual/ gay and lesbian counterparts don’t seem to have these hang ups and have developed a lot more meaningful relationships and focused more important things such as home and/or business ownership supporting each other dreams. Yet, we still can’t seem to get over the fact that there is more to life the pec or biceps. Whatever happens ….happens …and we all like what we like but don’t come crying to me or be bitter when you are still in that boat rowing around in a circle in this ocean called life.

All this saying “not to getting it twisted” is causing me a headache. SHUT UP ALL READY!

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Michael Jackson……………

Words cannot express my sense of lose nor my condolences to the Jackson Family. Thank you for allowing us to share your SON and his brilliant talent.

NYC PRIDE

Just an FYI, This weekend is NYC PRIDE. It should be a very nice pride. Have fun!

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Dorian Standberry

Dorian Standberry

WOW ….. Mr. Standberry can I get your number? lol So what a way to start or end a day. So if you have not heard Mr. Dorian Standberry, College Hill on BET, had some very revealing pictures post of him early this morning. OMG…..this guy has nothing to be ashamed of not is a very handsome man but he is very blessed too. I could look at him all day. Hell, if I could he would be at my house naked all day.

There is so much buzz going around about his sexuality and the end of his career. If he is GAY that would be a score for us! I find it so amazing that people are saying this could end his career. There are so many other and much bigger stars that have done a lot worst.

I really wish him the best and pray that he is around for a long time to come. HELL SEND ME SOME MORE PICTURES DIRECTLY….LOL

Up Your Alley........

LA is still ALIVE

So the reason why I haven’t posted over the pass few days is because I was in Los Angeles. I must admit over all I had a great time. I was really surprised that I did…LOL Honestly, I lived in LA for awhile partied all over the city but this past weekend was great. Maybe it was because one of my best friends’ was there in town from San Fran…….I LOVE YOU. I also got a chance to see some friends that I have not seen in like forever and I LOVE YA”LL TOO!

Here is the highlights from the weekend. So we both landed on Friday night. After a shower and change we left for the ” 1st Friday Event.” I had been once before and had a nice time so I was game. We get there an there is a cover of 15 bone….Yea….It was a black event. We get in and i am sorry to say wish I was out of there as fast as I was in…LOL Lets just say that there were a lot of ladies, fishnet, and booty popping. So we jet an afterhours spot off Crenshaw…..OMG lol!!!! This place puts the “H” in Hood lol I am not going togo into details.

So night number two, West Hollywood AKA WEHO was the next stop. We started at the Abbey, one of my favorite spot, had a few drinks and chatted up a few guys and star watch. Then we headed to The place called Mickey’s. They just completed a renovation and WOW this was the best place every. Its very Miami hip and trendy yet very welcoming to everyone. The bar sets in the middle with the dance floor in the back and a open patio out front that pulls you in. I would not do this place any justice if I didn’t comment on the bartenders. They are all gorgeous. I could not help but to keep looking at this one cutie with a mohawk and a single tattoo rolling off his shoulder on to his arm. We ended up back the Abbey for the remainder of the night and the rest on the weekend.

I had a really great time and it made me miss Los Angeles more. Who knows …I might be back.

Sexy Brotha of the Day

Finding Me

Actors: Ray Martell Moore, Derrick L. Briggs, J’Nara Corbin, Eugene Turner, Maurice Murrell
Directors: Roger S. Omeus Jr.

With African American love being distorted often times with depictions of only interracial couples one would be that African American and/or Black love can only existence in that capacity. Well I am here today to see that is so far from the truth. Black on Black love is so beautiful and tender, So much so that why you have so many other races seeking it out. So ever I see images of black on black I must share it.

A few months ago, a friend and I began to hear a buzz about an film that had been filmed, showed in limited theaters and going to be released within the coming months. And No it was not “Noah Ark”, which for the record in my top five movies to see, but was “Finding Me.” Now let’s be honest we have all been in that place and know what it means. In this life no gay and straight it can be a very hard life to live. We are constantly looking and defining ourselves determined to be validated.

It is available via Amazon.com at a lower price or check your local more forward thinking video store.

Happy Mother’s Day.

HI All,

Happy Mother’s Day. I hope everyone is having a great weekend. For all of those who are blessed to still haveHI All, Happy Mother’s Day. I hope everyone is having a great weekend. For all of those who are blessed to still have you mom with you please always treat her like a queen. i am not talking about like queen in the gay world..lol but one of royalty that she is. I know they can get on our last nerves but we get on theirs too. So we must be humble and bow down, It does not make us any last of a men but it does make us stronger. Besides in the bigger picture of life its really small an trivial. So MAN UP.

C. Hawthorne

Where are the Tops!

HI, how are you this morning my people? So I have been doing a lot of research for topic because there are so many to talk about. So I am going to allow nature to take its course. That sounds really nasty and makes you think of other things but I digress. But this TOPic (lol) maybe leads you to feel that way.
So here I am minding my own business again… honestly…I swear I was. That’s my story BITCHES and I am sticking to it. So minding my business I see this ad that read as follows:

”yo a nigga love to kiss perfect clean teeth, this nigga might give some ass if you got that skill for kissing but be hangin STEP STRONG, TOP 4 TOP ONLY HIV- NEGITIVE AS OF April 10, 2008 U BE TOO YO FELLOWS READ AND READ GOOD I AM A TOP FOR A TOP ONLY– NO OTHERS NEED APPLY”

Okay…what the fcuk is this Bullshit about? Why as my mother say “mudding up the water” I couple of problems here 1) What the HELL TWO TRUE TOP going to do with each other? Noticed I said “TRUE” and it’s too early to talk about flip flopping that damn early. 2) Why are you portraying yourself in a way that you are not? So I am off to obtain some insight so I asked a friend to chat with me about it and this is what happens. Enjoy I did.

First of all let me give some short background information concerning my friend. He categories himself a versatile gay man but to be honest he does not get fcuked. He a closeted top. I respect him and valued his honest nor bias opinion that he gives to you know matter that you are. Most times you do not even have to ask.

ThickBoi: HI, You have been working out haven’t you? You are looking good it works for you. So let’s get down to the reason we are here. Top Fcuking Top/ Tops only looking for other Tops. I know this has been talk about a lot. We along with a group of friends have chatted about this on many times. What is the first thing that comes to you mind when you here that?

Blazin: Yes, we have spoken on this topic too many times. As I always say, when there’s someone who says they are a top and looking for a top. It really means that one of the parties involved is actually a versatile and will for that moment be bottoming out. I believe the problem here is that we are talking about labels and where it’s hard for some guys to admit they enjoy being fucked. If we must go with labels, I would say that both of these guy are versatile and not your true top. (If there’s such a thing these days…lol). We as gay men need to come to terms of who we are and what we enjoy doing sexually without reserve.

ThickBoi: Have you ever encountered a “Top” that said he was one thing but turned out to be another?

Blazin: Oh hell yeah!! I have experienced it on so many occasions that I guess that why some people would consider me a top when I consider myself a versatile guy. I enjoy fcuking but I am a person who is about ensuring that I and my sexual partner are pleased and satisfied completely. As I stated previously, a man who enjoys being fcuk is totally acceptable behavior. It just seems some of us haven’t reached that point in our lives…lol

ThickBoi: How did you handle that?

Blazin: Shit! I fcuked the hell out of him. Then, I told him that if you enjoy being fcuked then say so but don’t be misleading on you sexual compatible. Embrace who you are and enjoy it…Of course, it was a fcuk and we may fcuk a couple more times and then he moved on as well as me. I believe now that he’s changed his top status to a versatile one. I think that’s a positive step in the right direction.

ThickBoi: Why would a TOP only seek out other TOPS? Is that kind of messing up the mix?

Blazin: Bro, you know I feel that people have the right to do and be whatever they like. I am not certain as to why another top would seek out another top. It just leaves me to believe that one wants to experience the bottom portion for a little while but you may want to ask some these brothers who are quote tops that are seeking other tops. As far as messing up the mix, I think variety is what makes life interesting. The end result we as men need to be comfortable in our own skin and accepting of what we do to ourselves.

Now I hate titles and category but that sometime they are necessary to stop confession. Look be who are you and say what you want. I think our community really puts a lot of unnecessary weight on each other. If you enjoy a nice ass riding you as a top, have a top bang you until there are stars in your eyes as a bottom and if you just don’t know what the fcuk you like so be versatile. Its very simple and what you enjoy does not increase nor decrease masculinity. I know a lot of bottoms that handle their busy and bring home the bacon, cook and feed it to there Tops just as there are Tops that do not handle there business, We have a responsibility as men to be role models for both the young and old.
C. Hawthorne

There has to be more then this.

Why does it seem that “Dl/thug/men" always equate masculine to a way of acting? I know a lot of “Dl/thug/men and more of them to me honest they act more Cunty or fem, effeminate...what have you... It takes them forever to get dress, want to wear, at the barber and manicure shop, in the gym trying to stay pumped so other guys notice them and they are the main ones always gossiping and talking shit about others. That seems really CUNTY TO ME AND QUEEN.
Damn okay I get it and so does everyone one else....lol you like what you like. But if yo ass is still here in the same place same time next year. You know why. Our other homosexual/ gay and lesbian counterparts don't seem to have these hang ups and have developed a lot more meaningful relationships and focused more important things such as home and/or business ownership supporting each other dreams. Yet, we still can’t seem to get over the fact that there is more to life the pec or biceps. Whatever happens ....happens ...and we all like what we like but don't come crying to me or be bitter when you are still in that boat rowing around in a circle in this ocean called life. All this saying "not to getting it twisted" is causing me a headache. SHUT UP ALL READY!


C. Hawthorne

It's My Time

So, I finally decided to join the world of the Bloggers. You had to know it was coming. I promise to have continues postings, to be interesting and to be HONEST all the times. With that, I must say that I am very excited about blogging. So please come back to visit very soon.