HI All,
Happy Mother’s Day. I hope everyone is having a great weekend. For all of those who are blessed to still haveHI All, Happy Mother’s Day. I hope everyone is having a great weekend. For all of those who are blessed to still have you mom with you please always treat her like a queen. i am not talking about like queen in the gay world..lol but one of royalty that she is. I know they can get on our last nerves but we get on theirs too. So we must be humble and bow down, It does not make us any last of a men but it does make us stronger. Besides in the bigger picture of life its really small an trivial. So MAN UP.
C. Hawthorne
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Where are the Tops!
HI, how are you this morning my people? So I have been doing a lot of research for topic because there are so many to talk about. So I am going to allow nature to take its course. That sounds really nasty and makes you think of other things but I digress. But this TOPic (lol) maybe leads you to feel that way.
So here I am minding my own business again… honestly…I swear I was. That’s my story BITCHES and I am sticking to it. So minding my business I see this ad that read as follows:
”yo a nigga love to kiss perfect clean teeth, this nigga might give some ass if you got that skill for kissing but be hangin STEP STRONG, TOP 4 TOP ONLY HIV- NEGITIVE AS OF April 10, 2008 U BE TOO YO FELLOWS READ AND READ GOOD I AM A TOP FOR A TOP ONLY– NO OTHERS NEED APPLY”
Okay…what the fcuk is this Bullshit about? Why as my mother say “mudding up the water” I couple of problems here 1) What the HELL TWO TRUE TOP going to do with each other? Noticed I said “TRUE” and it’s too early to talk about flip flopping that damn early. 2) Why are you portraying yourself in a way that you are not? So I am off to obtain some insight so I asked a friend to chat with me about it and this is what happens. Enjoy I did.
First of all let me give some short background information concerning my friend. He categories himself a versatile gay man but to be honest he does not get fcuked. He a closeted top. I respect him and valued his honest nor bias opinion that he gives to you know matter that you are. Most times you do not even have to ask.
ThickBoi: HI, You have been working out haven’t you? You are looking good it works for you. So let’s get down to the reason we are here. Top Fcuking Top/ Tops only looking for other Tops. I know this has been talk about a lot. We along with a group of friends have chatted about this on many times. What is the first thing that comes to you mind when you here that?
Blazin: Yes, we have spoken on this topic too many times. As I always say, when there’s someone who says they are a top and looking for a top. It really means that one of the parties involved is actually a versatile and will for that moment be bottoming out. I believe the problem here is that we are talking about labels and where it’s hard for some guys to admit they enjoy being fucked. If we must go with labels, I would say that both of these guy are versatile and not your true top. (If there’s such a thing these days…lol). We as gay men need to come to terms of who we are and what we enjoy doing sexually without reserve.
ThickBoi: Have you ever encountered a “Top” that said he was one thing but turned out to be another?
Blazin: Oh hell yeah!! I have experienced it on so many occasions that I guess that why some people would consider me a top when I consider myself a versatile guy. I enjoy fcuking but I am a person who is about ensuring that I and my sexual partner are pleased and satisfied completely. As I stated previously, a man who enjoys being fcuk is totally acceptable behavior. It just seems some of us haven’t reached that point in our lives…lol
ThickBoi: How did you handle that?
Blazin: Shit! I fcuked the hell out of him. Then, I told him that if you enjoy being fcuked then say so but don’t be misleading on you sexual compatible. Embrace who you are and enjoy it…Of course, it was a fcuk and we may fcuk a couple more times and then he moved on as well as me. I believe now that he’s changed his top status to a versatile one. I think that’s a positive step in the right direction.
ThickBoi: Why would a TOP only seek out other TOPS? Is that kind of messing up the mix?
Blazin: Bro, you know I feel that people have the right to do and be whatever they like. I am not certain as to why another top would seek out another top. It just leaves me to believe that one wants to experience the bottom portion for a little while but you may want to ask some these brothers who are quote tops that are seeking other tops. As far as messing up the mix, I think variety is what makes life interesting. The end result we as men need to be comfortable in our own skin and accepting of what we do to ourselves.
Now I hate titles and category but that sometime they are necessary to stop confession. Look be who are you and say what you want. I think our community really puts a lot of unnecessary weight on each other. If you enjoy a nice ass riding you as a top, have a top bang you until there are stars in your eyes as a bottom and if you just don’t know what the fcuk you like so be versatile. Its very simple and what you enjoy does not increase nor decrease masculinity. I know a lot of bottoms that handle their busy and bring home the bacon, cook and feed it to there Tops just as there are Tops that do not handle there business, We have a responsibility as men to be role models for both the young and old.
C. Hawthorne
So here I am minding my own business again… honestly…I swear I was. That’s my story BITCHES and I am sticking to it. So minding my business I see this ad that read as follows:
”yo a nigga love to kiss perfect clean teeth, this nigga might give some ass if you got that skill for kissing but be hangin STEP STRONG, TOP 4 TOP ONLY HIV- NEGITIVE AS OF April 10, 2008 U BE TOO YO FELLOWS READ AND READ GOOD I AM A TOP FOR A TOP ONLY– NO OTHERS NEED APPLY”
Okay…what the fcuk is this Bullshit about? Why as my mother say “mudding up the water” I couple of problems here 1) What the HELL TWO TRUE TOP going to do with each other? Noticed I said “TRUE” and it’s too early to talk about flip flopping that damn early. 2) Why are you portraying yourself in a way that you are not? So I am off to obtain some insight so I asked a friend to chat with me about it and this is what happens. Enjoy I did.
First of all let me give some short background information concerning my friend. He categories himself a versatile gay man but to be honest he does not get fcuked. He a closeted top. I respect him and valued his honest nor bias opinion that he gives to you know matter that you are. Most times you do not even have to ask.
ThickBoi: HI, You have been working out haven’t you? You are looking good it works for you. So let’s get down to the reason we are here. Top Fcuking Top/ Tops only looking for other Tops. I know this has been talk about a lot. We along with a group of friends have chatted about this on many times. What is the first thing that comes to you mind when you here that?
Blazin: Yes, we have spoken on this topic too many times. As I always say, when there’s someone who says they are a top and looking for a top. It really means that one of the parties involved is actually a versatile and will for that moment be bottoming out. I believe the problem here is that we are talking about labels and where it’s hard for some guys to admit they enjoy being fucked. If we must go with labels, I would say that both of these guy are versatile and not your true top. (If there’s such a thing these days…lol). We as gay men need to come to terms of who we are and what we enjoy doing sexually without reserve.
ThickBoi: Have you ever encountered a “Top” that said he was one thing but turned out to be another?
Blazin: Oh hell yeah!! I have experienced it on so many occasions that I guess that why some people would consider me a top when I consider myself a versatile guy. I enjoy fcuking but I am a person who is about ensuring that I and my sexual partner are pleased and satisfied completely. As I stated previously, a man who enjoys being fcuk is totally acceptable behavior. It just seems some of us haven’t reached that point in our lives…lol
ThickBoi: How did you handle that?
Blazin: Shit! I fcuked the hell out of him. Then, I told him that if you enjoy being fcuked then say so but don’t be misleading on you sexual compatible. Embrace who you are and enjoy it…Of course, it was a fcuk and we may fcuk a couple more times and then he moved on as well as me. I believe now that he’s changed his top status to a versatile one. I think that’s a positive step in the right direction.
ThickBoi: Why would a TOP only seek out other TOPS? Is that kind of messing up the mix?
Blazin: Bro, you know I feel that people have the right to do and be whatever they like. I am not certain as to why another top would seek out another top. It just leaves me to believe that one wants to experience the bottom portion for a little while but you may want to ask some these brothers who are quote tops that are seeking other tops. As far as messing up the mix, I think variety is what makes life interesting. The end result we as men need to be comfortable in our own skin and accepting of what we do to ourselves.
Now I hate titles and category but that sometime they are necessary to stop confession. Look be who are you and say what you want. I think our community really puts a lot of unnecessary weight on each other. If you enjoy a nice ass riding you as a top, have a top bang you until there are stars in your eyes as a bottom and if you just don’t know what the fcuk you like so be versatile. Its very simple and what you enjoy does not increase nor decrease masculinity. I know a lot of bottoms that handle their busy and bring home the bacon, cook and feed it to there Tops just as there are Tops that do not handle there business, We have a responsibility as men to be role models for both the young and old.
C. Hawthorne
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